#LivingVicariously, or, an Update on Seeing a Spiritual Advisor for the Past Six Months

What seriously sparks the interest of two middle aged Muslim converts for whom religion is a central drama of life?: Seeing a spiritual advisor. Mariko texted me asking for updates on my experience with this when I began it. #LivingVicariously. I met JMD professionally last fall when I visited The Hermitage, a retreat center knownContinueContinue reading “#LivingVicariously, or, an Update on Seeing a Spiritual Advisor for the Past Six Months”

Ramadan 2019: V: Eid: And Thoughts about Gratitude

Eid, which began June 4 this year, is the three-day celebration that ends the month of Ramadan. I’m straddling two competing emotions right now: the resentment I mentioned last week that I really want to let go of, and gratitude, which seems to me to be the perfect antidote. Let’s go all-in for gratitude forContinueContinue reading “Ramadan 2019: V: Eid: And Thoughts about Gratitude”

Ramadan 2019: IV: TMI, Lesser-Known Facts about This Month, and a Prayer Request

Normally, I keep my Ramadan posts uber spiritual, and if I don’t have anything nice to say, I don’t say anything at all. This post is a harder look at Ramadan and its traditions. Also, it’s a request for prayer. As you know, my cat Bethesda died this week. I stopped fasting for a fewContinueContinue reading “Ramadan 2019: IV: TMI, Lesser-Known Facts about This Month, and a Prayer Request”

Ramadan 2019: III: Getting Closer to God

During past Ramadans, the only thing that mattered to me was an emotional connection to God. A good day of fasting was a day I felt close to God. If I didn’t feel an intense emotional reward, I was bereft. I actually felt punished. I didn’t know that there was another way to evaluate aContinueContinue reading “Ramadan 2019: III: Getting Closer to God”